POINTS TO PONDER

POINTS TO PONDER
( open letter to Ms Umaira Ahmed )

Madam I have watched a wonderful Urdu Dramas based on your novels (  SHEHER e ZAAT) which were excellent I am currently watching Zindagi Gulzar Hey which again is superb I wait for the new episode every Friday . I have two points I want to discuss in response to your story lines :

1. I have noticed ......All female characters dressed up in western clothes are quite arrogant or rather " full of themselves " , they live in their own world just simply don't care about others around them . As a matter of fact they are " quite spoiled"
Madam it is true that our culture and our world has such people but according to my humble opinion not every girl dressed up in pants and shirt is a " brat " and every girl wrapped in a chaddar is a " neak parveen"( extremely nice ). Madam there are many ladies who dress up in western clothes drive expensive cars but have a heart of gold are nice and respectful to not only those around them but they also help others in need . Also some girls who wear shalwar Kameez all the time are very conniving and jealous . Please try not to label some one .

2. I have also noticed that mothers who are " rich " are too busy in their lives don't care about their husbands and kids ....,.are just busy partying ! Madam I have seen thousands of moms in Pakistan and also abroad who are very involved in their kids lives , are good wives , also take care of the house and yes they also belong to the " upper middle class"
Kindly consider that point too " it is true" that moms who work day and night to make ends meet are simply " great " but the ones who are financialy stable yet taking care of kids and family 24/7 are not at all " worthless "!!
Everyone has different circumstances in life and it is one" s duty to live the best in his or her circumstances .